Whatever You Want

 

“All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”
-Gandalf, The Lord of the Rings

Before you dive into this blog, take a deep breath and say to yourself:

“Thank you for being kind to me. Sometimes I fall, sometimes I rise, and often, I feel exhausted. But thank you—because I’m still here.”

To me, life isn’t about constantly having it all together. It’s not about always being consistent or ticking off every goal. It’s about being practical—understanding what you truly want, and taking the steps that make you feel more grounded, more at peace, and ultimately, more you.

We’ve all been through seasons—days, months, even years—where we’re just trying to survive. We chase things we think we deserve, hoping they’ll bring happiness or fulfillment. And when something good finally happens, we cling to it as if that’s all there is—our one shot at joy in a world that rarely feels fair.

But here’s the hard truth: settling into comfort can stop us from growing.

Let me share a story. I have a friend—a fairly new one—who's been working in the same industry for years. He’s good at what he does. Driven. Disciplined. He’s been waiting for one thing: a promotion.

He was promised it. Then delayed. Then promised again. And again. And guess what? Still, nothing happened.

Imagine that: years of giving your best, only to stay in the same place, emotionally and professionally.

He finally spoke up. He refused to stay silent. And even now, with more promises on the table, he’s not buying into empty words anymore. Why? Because he knows what he wants. And he refuses to settle.

That’s the kind of energy we all need. Life demands practicality—not just passion. It’s not only about chasing money, status, or titles. It’s also about growth. Real growth. The kind that makes you uncomfortable but also makes you wiser, bolder, and more self-aware.

So why am I writing this?

Because like you, I’m learning. I’m still figuring it all out. But one thing I do know is: I’m not settling.

There’s something more out there for me—something that will challenge me, grow me, and make me feel more alive than I do today. And even as I move forward, I remain thankful—for the days, the months, the lessons. Because I finally know myself better than I ever did before.